Attraction Mind Map

What’s that? You may ask.  I know I did 2 weeks ago when my friend and EFT therapist, Siew Fan asked me about aligning personal values with what I want to achieve. 

I did not understand the true extent of what she meant….that is, until yesterday in our weekly talks together.  For true success and abundance, you must first align both your personal values with business goals.  When you are not in alignment, don’t expect to shine and excel.

Admittedly I was in a fix. Although I had some ideology and visions that I would fight for, I did not really know what my true personal values are.  After all, it is one thing to say out loud that my personal value is for example ”to fight for the greater good of all mankind” but is my subconscious mind really echoing the same thoughts?  I tossed and turned in bed for 2 weeks about what my true values really are….until Siew Fan came to the rescue yesterday.   

With Siew Fan’s help, I accessed my subconscious mind to find out what my personal values and wants are.  There is apparently a list on the hierachy of needs and wants. My subconscious mind tells me that I have got 8 such values.  Before accessing my subconscious mind, I ranked them according to what I thought the hierachy should look like.  Then, with Siew Fan’s help, my subconscious mind then revealed to me how I actually ranked them. 

Surprise! Surprise! I was amazed to find out that despite thinking about wealth abundance everyday, money was really at the bottom of my list.  So what’s first? 

Freedom. 

Siew Fan said that there is no definition for each value.  It is what your subconcious mind defines it to be. 

Then, it all started to click yesterday.  Yes….for me, freedom is personal freedom.  The freedom to do what I want.  As and when I want it. 

I want to have the option to travel many times a year.  I want to have the option of living in a big house or a small one. I want to have the option to send my kids to the best classes in town. I want to have the option to give my kids the opportunity for more choices. It does not mean that I will necessarily be staying in the biggest bungalow or flying first class, etc.  Just having the option to do what I want is most vital to me.  

With this knowledge, I am more convinced that I am on the right path, despite the myraid challenges.  Because my ultimate dream is to gain the freedom that I so long for.  And doing an online business is the step that I have to take to reach there.

But how on earth can I get freedom when money is way bottom….8th on the list, in fact?  Well, read my next post to find out how my energy healing therapist helped me to align money and freedom.  Siew Fan wisely cautioned me that if there is no alignment, there cannot be true attainment of what is truly important to my subconscious mind (being freedom).  

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