Comments on: 7 Tips To Surviving Tough Times

By: Evelyn

Evelyn — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 04:09:35 +0000

@Juhi, Jenn and Tasmin,

Thanks for your stumbles. I did not realise how much help my article has provided. You have been most kind to provide a feedback.

@Jvg, oh yes…many of us have been guilty of the victim mentality at one point or another. It’s time to take responsibility. You can change your future through the thoughts that you think.

All the best,
Evelyn

By: Jvg

Jvg — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 02:01:37 +0000

Evelyn,

Thanks for this wonderful article. We are going through a tough time right now, and I was (perhaps still am) in the “why us” mode. A few events have repeated over and over again in our lives. But your article has forced me to rethink, and now I am beginning to wonder “is there something that we ought to have learnt last time that we did not and these events have repeated themselves again”? Thanks very much for making me see a different perspective. Hopefully, I get the message this time!

Best wishes,

Jvg

By: Juhi

Juhi — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 16:56:46 +0000

I stumbled upon your article today while googling for self-improvement tips.

I am thankful to you for writing this as this has given me hope. I am dealing with a tough situation at work and this has me in the dumps. I am someone who lets their work/professional life define who they are.

After reading you article, i am trying to be more positive and less negative. For the last few weeks, the thoughts in my head have been negative and self-demeaning. I view the lack of success at my job as a personal failure.

Going forward, i will focus on being positive and thinking of the solution to the problem rather than the reasons.

Regards,
Juhi

By: jenn

jenn — Thu, 26 Jun 2008 17:51:18 +0000

Thanks dear! needed to read that!!!

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By: Tamsin

Tamsin — Mon, 05 May 2008 14:54:46 +0000

Hi Evelyn also just ’stumbled’ on your post, which I thought was great. I especially agree with your point about trash the worry, and would add that I strongly believe that people get what they focus on. So, if one focusses on how tough times are, then invariably times will feel just that … tough. So often it’s easy to slip into the belief that we can’t change things when we’re feeling low, but by focussing on something else in that moment, which does make us feel good, it can help us to feel better more quickly. So, I’d add point no 8, you get what you focus on, so focus on things that do make you happy as much as possible.

Thanks Evelyn, I’m sure your post has helped many people.

Tamsin

By: Anna

Anna — Sat, 03 May 2008 21:51:23 +0000

Hi Evelyn! Just stumbled upon this your wonderful post. Agree with you, especially with your last point on smiling. Maintaining a positive mood always makes difference.

Thanks!
Anna

By: Evelyn

Evelyn — Fri, 02 May 2008 12:54:31 +0000

Thanks, Mary and Max for your lovely feedback.

Thanks, Brein, too for agreeing to the points in this article!

Love and light,
Evelyn

By: Breian Malupa - Breian.com

Breian Malupa - Breian.com — Fri, 02 May 2008 11:10:48 +0000

These 7 points are very important. It is inevitable and we will find ourselves in rough seas. When we find ourselves in rough and very tough circumstances, we get shaken. We lose composure, and losing composure will affect our self control, our focus and direction.
It is very important for us to be grounded during tough and difficult circumstances. These 7 points will help us to be grounded and hold composure, it will help us to stay focus and keep moving in the right direction.
Excellent post